- Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris married in summer 2025 in upstate New York. The marriage became public on September 30, 2026.
- Vogue broke the news by running an excerpt from Harris's memoir, And I Will Tell You Mine: Notes from a Life in Progress, along with an interview with both women.
- Both brides wore black. The only guests were Harris's children, Sloane, 5, and Ocean, 4, whom she shares with ex-wife Ali Krieger.
- Bush said that after years of her life being turned into headlines, keeping the day private felt sacred.
- Speculation had been building for months, fueled by matching gold rings and a gossip-account item that neither woman confirmed.
Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris are married, and they have been for more than a year. Vogue published the news on September 30, running an excerpt from Harris's upcoming memoir, And I Will Tell You Mine: Notes from a Life in Progress, together with an interview in which both women described the day.
Until then, the public had rings and rumors. Nothing else.
The ceremony took place in upstate New York in the summer of 2025. Bush is 44. Harris, a retired U.S. goalkeeper and two-time World Cup champion, is 40. They skipped the white dress entirely and chose all-black outfits, a pointed break from the usual script. Photos shared with Vogue show the two kissing and holding each other in a field of greenery.
The guest list was short. Really short. Harris's daughter Sloane and son Ocean were the only people there, and they treated it like a normal afternoon outside. Harris told the magazine the kids ran around happily, that flowers were picked from the property, and that Sloane ended up carrying them.
Bush writes in the book that the rest of her life began that day. HuffPost reports the couple said they later made up for the tiny turnout by traveling across the country to celebrate with other people.
Why keep it quiet at all? Bush gave a direct answer. After so many years of strangers dissecting her life, she wrote, there was "something sacred about letting this belong to us first." In the Vogue interview she also said that at this point in life, you start sorting out what is truly yours and what has always been handed to everyone else.
The guest list was short. Really short. Harris's daughter Sloane and son Ocean were the only people there, and they treated it like a normal afternoon outside. Harris told the magazine the kids ran around happily, that flowers were picked from the property, and that Sloane ended up carrying them.
Bush writes in the book that the rest of her life began that day. HuffPost reports the couple said they later made up for the tiny turnout by traveling across the country to celebrate with other people.
Why keep it quiet at all? Bush gave a direct answer. After so many years of strangers dissecting her life, she wrote, there was "something sacred about letting this belong to us first." In the Vogue interview she also said that at this point in life, you start sorting out what is truly yours and what has always been handed to everyone else.
The two first crossed paths at a conference in August 2019 and were friends long before anything else. Both marriages ended in 2023. Bush filed for divorce from entrepreneur Grant Hughes on August 4, closing out a 13-month marriage. Harris filed against Krieger, her former national team teammate, in September after nearly four years of marriage.
Reports that Bush and Harris were dating followed within weeks. The timeline drew heavy scrutiny, plenty of speculation, and a flood of online hostility that Bush later described in her own words.
She addressed it head on in a Glamour cover story in April 2024, where she came out as queer and wrote about falling in love with Harris. Days later the pair made their red carpet debut at the White House Correspondents' Dinner, both in black pieces from the same designer, Harbison Studio.
The contrast with Bush's first marriage is hard to miss. Her 2022 wedding to Hughes was a big, socially minded weekend in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and Vogue showcased it roughly a month after the vows. Everything about it was public almost immediately.
This time the order flipped. Wedding first. Press, more than a year later.
Fans did notice things along the way. Both women were photographed wearing matching gold rings in the months before the reveal, and Deux Moi posted about a rumored wedding in late August 2025. Harris's 40th birthday party in October 2025 only added fuel. None of it was confirmed by the couple until the Vogue package.
The announcement comes a week after the family appeared together at the inaugural A Sense of Home gala in New York City on September 23, with Sloane and Ocean alongside Bush and Harris in coordinated dark blazers and dress pants.
Harris's memoir is still forthcoming, and the excerpt Vogue ran is the first public look at how she tells the story. Neither woman has said whether more of the wedding will appear in the full book, though Bush's comments suggest the private day is now being shared on their own terms.
